Category: life

Minnesotan’s Danish facts

Living in a new culture and trying to understand or spot differences in ways of doing simple things has been an important part of reflecting on my everyday experiences. Below is a list of some preconceived notions prior to my arrival, their transformations as well as things I hadn’t thought about prior to my arrival and their specialness through my eyes.

  • When I thought of Denmark before coming I imagined Nyhavn as a central and mainstream location, where most people come to hang out. I understand this is a very silo-ed view of Denmark, which is why I am so happy to understand the general makeup of the country as a whole.
    • While it is very bustling, beautiful and probably a wonderful place to hang out in warmer months [ i.e. summer] — it is not my favorite place to hang out. I have enjoyed exploring the “burrows” of Copenhagen, also called neighborhoods; and finding small coffee shops which are hopping with few foreigners and a vast amount of Danes.
  • “I should probably make a budget section special to paying for bathrooms”
    • I’ve been to Europe before with my family and a summer Archaeology Dig (via Ohio State University) so I knew about street bathrooms that require a fee.  I was semi-worried about paying for something that is more or less a publicly given right in the United States. Luckily, I’ve been able to strategically plan my needs along with wanderings and find myself in coffee shops or nearby DIS buildings when nature calls.
  • Goals for semester before arriving in Denmark: TRAVEL as much and as widespread as possible 
    • new goals; understand the culture beyond the “tourist’s perspective”, travel where possible (loads of study breaks) but also make time to explore Denmark in general, stay in my homestay/CPH area enough to feel like a local and part of my host family
  • The arrangement and set up of streets is very strategically planned to be biker friendly or pedestrian friendly or both. 
    • Many places/streets are set up by those guidelines (much more than most large cities in the United States). As far as car usage, due to the fact I live in a suburb of Copenhagen, cars are a main form of transportation. Also through my Core Course Study Tour we were able to explore different neighborhoods and determine that not every place in Denmark (even very urban neighborhoods) focus on the biker/pedestrian culture. This means that many places are very unsafe to bike in, or require much more attentive navigation and much more understanding of one’s surroundings.
  • As such a green country the way they reuse things must be SO innovative and utilize new ways to “be green” 
    • not quite. Yes, Denmark is very green, they have many Wind Turbines, very windy country. Things I saw as “basic” are not quite so basic. Recycling of bottles, paper, and cardboard is much trickier than expected and selective on terms of where to recycle and which bottles can be recycled– and normal paper is not recycled.
  • “only bring simple, black and neutral clothing” 
    • NOT TRUE. the moment I got here I longed for my Pink Doc Martens and ended up having my mom [ thanks mom] send them to me. Bring clothes you like and be okay with re-wearing things a few times between washing. Also, comfy shoes are #1 essential item.

rain puddles

Today, was a very rainy day. Despite the droplets continually falling on our heads, my friends Sammy, Natalie and I ventured out to the Danish Museum of Design. It was a fun museum to see due to the historical timeline it brings you through from early inspirations of Japanese traditional designs to modern day examples, like Bauhaus designs. It’s also free for students and anything free is a wonderful bonus!

chair cuddles

chair cuddles

We found some great inspiration throughout to recreate some art/design pieces in current time. Please enjoy some of our interpretations.

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sammadonna

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“look serious or too cool”

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Natalie copying a girl who had been standing there previously

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real art

It’s amazing how a great group of friends can change your entire perspective and influence you to truly think differently. I am enjoying meeting new people on a regular basis, but also forming deeper connections with people in my courses, people who I know randomly, or are friends of friends. Thanks to the great people  [ along with Denmark in general] I feel like there is never a dull moment or a time when I haven’t discovered something new or been able to just enjoy my surroundings.

thanks for sending my docs mom! they bring a bit more color to my feet pics

Thanks for sending my pink docs Mom! They bring a bit more color to my feet pics!

schedule freeness

line jumping at a Nørrebro park

line jumping at a Nørrebro park

One aspect of studying at DIS that I haven’t really thought too much about is the class-free Wednesdays. This means that more often than not, you have a majority of your day to go and experience life in the area you live, or any part of Denmark. If you do have class, its a field study often to also experience Copenhagen with your class.  Today, I took advantage of schedule freeness and explored Nørrebro with my friend Kristen.

 

building art (which reads "eye man")

building art (which reads “eye man”)

Nørrebro is one of the neighborhoods near the city center, sort of like the Brooklyn of Copenhagen. Which means that it has extreme amounts of culture, personality and is overall a nice place to wander and bike aimlessly!

One thing about Copenhagen is that the parks here are wonderful no matter what age you are. I have found a variety of playgrounds that have made me want to be a mini-human again. They are often colorful, uniquely designed and not full of colored metal bars or constrained by regulations (that I know of or can tell). They are much different from the ones I played on during my childhood in Minnesota. Please enjoy a brief video of  trampoline jumping below.

 

In-ground mini trampolines of various shapes; circles or squares, are a normal feature found on playgrounds or parks.

When I stumble upon them, they add a delightful addition to my day!

 

 

 

 

Eurovision Song Contest

Last evening I had the lovely opportunity to hang out with a friend of mine, her host mom, visiting host student and her host mom’s friends as we partook in watching the Eurovision Song Contest.

I went in thinking, wow this will be a fun evening, we were having sushi and they have a cat. I was extremely excited to cuddle with and make friends with said fluff ball as my host family doesn’t have any furry animals. Unfortunately, I have lost my “cat sense” and their cat didn’t exactly fall into my arms, but the rest of the evening was even better than I could describe.

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The Eurovision Song Contest is semi-similar to American Idol, X-factor or television singing contests. This competition is first within Denmark (what we were watching last night), and then the winners go to compete against the rest of European countries’ selected winners.

Last night, we watched ten different musical performances, of which only one was sung in Danish. In order to have a better chance to win the full European contest, and be understood, it is a trend to sing in English now-a-days.

ballots upon ballots

ballots upon ballots

I won’t spoil who won the contest last night, but it was interesting to converse with some other Danish lasses about their lives, the upcoming Oscars Award Ceremony and truly feel the sense of hygge as we jammed out to some tunes.

Tak Jessie for a wonderful evening!

castle elegancy

This weekend I was able to make my way to Kronborg Castle in Elsinore, Denmark. While it was a bit of a long trek to get there, it was well worth the train time.

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This castle is what William Shakespeare is rumored to have been inspired by while writing Hamlet. Although he never visited Kronborg, he had friends who supposedly told him all about details of life there.

The other importance this castle has is its relation in look to the castle in Disney’s Frozen. So, basically I visited Elsa’s home last weekend.

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grocery shopping

One thing I didn’t think about prior to flying across the ocean was the entire subject of eating. I assumed I would try some interesting foods, or have to stop some of my eating habits, including peanut butter, my favorite cereals, and Ritz Crackers with cheese. A lovely surprise has been that living and eating with my host family has been not too difficult of an adjustment. This could be due to the fact that Minnesotan eating is pretty similar to Danish eating; lots of potatoes and vegetables with a type of meat.

The food, in my homestay has been wonderful! My host-dad is very savvy and thrifty at buying things on sale, at a good kroner value. This means he may go to the store multiple times a week, only getting a few items each trip. At first, I didn’t quite understand because at home we go once or twice a week to get all the items we want and need, but I am beginning to understand it’s to waste less, and keep all our food good and eaten.

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I am used to the concept of composting, in Minnesota and at school in Massachusetts there are places for composting food scraps. Here in Denmark we have three hens which get our food scraps. This is sort of like composting….

I have been eating a lot more meat than I am used to here. My host dad is a “meat and wine expert” so he seems to really know what to prepare and what to pair with what. He is also trying to make me a well rounded person, teaching me about truly tasting wines for their full flavor.

Jette and Hans-Erik across the table at dinner

Jette and Hans-Erik across the table after dinner one evening

Today I asked about Nutella because I was craving some chocolate. My host-dad explained  how he knew Americans like to eat it but, it is too sweet for him and my host-mom. Also he spoke how Nutella is “going the wrong way in life”. I mostly found this funny, as he also stocks various forms of ice cream in the freezer downstairs. By past host students, Hans-Erik was called “Ice Man” which is fitting for such an ice cream lover (another lovely similarity to my Dad back home!).

One day last week our neighbor Peter brought over “cream puffs” (I can’t seem to spell the actual name of this delicious treat!) I kept pronouncing it “flub-er-bubbers” but that is completely wrong. It was such a wonderful surprise and such a taste-y treat, a must try by all!

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All in all, I am loving the connection I have been able to get with my host family through our nightly dinner traditions. I am hoping to pick up on some of their cooking skills during my time here!

mal-muoh

It’s maal-muuuoh (Malmö), as explained to me by both my next door neighbor Peter and host dad, Hans-Erik. This also led to them making me repeat the name for a solid five minutes.

I went to Malmö, Sweden this weekend, a hop skip and jump across a bridge from Copenhagen (by train, not on foot!). I wish I could put into words the adventures and experiences of my day, but a much better explanation is through some key points below!

natural beauty: I tried to really take notice of the beauty around me today, via the historical squares, the various sculptures (everywhere) and the breeze from the ocean.

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rad dads: We were able to navigate to the Malmö Castle, which has a Moat!! It was once used for Jewish Internment Camp Refugees and today has multiple exhibitions of art and historical artifacts. I found the “Swedish Dads” exhibit to be the most entertaining of the bunch we explored. The project can be found online at:

[ http://www.johanbavman.se/swedish-dads/]

do-the-twist: a “must-see” of Malmö was mentioned multiple times was the building, the Twisting Torso. Below, I did “the twist”.

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acceptance: A group of us went “Winter Bathing” in the Baltic Sea. All day long we were anticipating how crazy of an idea this was, but it once again showed me the importance of being open-minded and truly understanding and accepting of all. It also ended up being the high point of the day!

[ photos were not allowed, due to the fact that winter bathing is done nude, so below is a picture of “the crew” afterwards]

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finding my way

After a week and a half of living “as the danes do” I am starting to get my footing. I am understanding the various forms of transportation and  which s-tog stop is fastest to my classes. I am understanding the silence of various public places which contrasts greatly with the friendliness of those whom I dare to speak with.

Among all of the new-ness, I realize how in a few short months, the insanity I find with some things here will probably seem normal. Below is my list of my first ten impressions/thoughts that come to mind when I think of Denmark today.

  • Design ( spaces, sidewalks, stairs, visuals)
yes, I love pictures of my feet

I have this thing with floors

  • Hygge (not a place, not a thing, it’s a feeling)
  • Black/Color (I expected all black, but there is actually a lot of color in Denmark, people wearing colors and throughout the city)
  • Glass ( Just the use of windows and their “see-through-ness”)
CIID building, Copenhagen

CIID [Copenhagen Institute of Interactive Design] building {stairwell)

  • Wet/Rain (both outside, and inside through the focus on shorter showers)
  • Warmth (mainly through copious amounts of coffee and tea)
  • “Locked” doors (S-tog and building doors both from the inside and outside)
  • Handball (Nej!! Being shouted with much animation by my host dad at the TV due to some unfortunate results. The Danish team lost this week to Sweden and Germany)
If I could upload a video I would

If I could upload a video I would

  • Light/Air (focus on air; the concept of fresh air; and the closeness of lamps to tables/your reading or food)
  • Style (the effortless [or so it looks] style of everyone; riding bikes, walking around town, office wear)

vært fætter

My host parents have children that are all older than I. One of their daughters comes over often and has 2 sons, therefore my vært fætter (host cousins).One is 4, and the other one is 1 and both very adorable. They remind me of my cousins back home, except for the fact that I can’t understand what they yell at me, and they can’t understand what I yell back at them!

vært søster og vært fætter

vært søster og vært fætter (host sister and host cousin)

 

Handball, Blue Fridge, Hot Tea

This adjustment week, also called orientation week, is just about over. Tomorrow I begin classes in tiny dwellings conveniently placed among various stores such as Tiger (Danish “Target” as how it was described to me), various restaurants and bars and in the mist of fully filled bike racks.

Morning S-tog Light

Morning S-tog Light

I have truly enjoyed my time getting to know my host family and place myself into their usual routine. This has included watching vast amounts of different sporting matches. This has included being described fully the game of Handball by Hans-Erik. The hair game of the Danish mens team is so strong, along with the rest of their game (they’ve won both the 2 matches I’ve watched).

* note: Man-Bun does not translate into Danish, it is “just a hairstyle of some players”

#2 rated handball player in the world, Mikkel Hansen

#2 rated handball player in the world, Mikkel Hansen

Jesper Nøddesbo rocking a man-bun (while cringing in pain?)

Jesper Nøddesbo rocking a man-bun (while cringing in pain?)

 

 

 

 

 

 

A cherished time for me has been sitting in the kitchen watching my host parents cook and their simple interactions with one another and myself. Their special blue Italian, SVEG fridge, has a special place in my heart and makes me smile for no reason. It is the history and the organization of their kitchen,
much different from my own back home, that seems to help me understand the true sense of “being danish”. The word I can clearly associate with Denmark is simplicity. While that does not mean everything is simple here, it has a feeling that relates to simplicity and a calm being.

Jette watering plants

Jette watering plants

Hans-Erik Cooking

Hans-Erik preparing dinner

Lastly, the amount of nice hot tea I have consumed this week is definitely at the all time high of my lifetime. Instead of trying out the bars in the city I have been drinking all the tea while cozy with their fireplace and sweets from chocolate, to indescribable candies, to even applesauce (yes, you read that correct, it was homemade and SO delicious).

*three new danish words

vest = west

nord = north

port= gate